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Old 27th February 2012, 10:51 PM
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I'm new and I have joined to be able to talk to others who are atheists. I was raised very religious, but once I got to teen years I found I couldn't help but question the miracles and killings etc. that are all part of the Bible. I have tried to keep the peace by not expressing my thoughts for a number of years. But I don't want to do that any more, particularly because I have kids that are the age I was when I was indoctrinated and I don't want to do that to my kids. I don't want to raise them full of fear and guilt!

Has anyone read anything interesting about why people are so eager to believe in God what is the drive behind it all?

Mod note: moved, as it deserved a Welcome thread of its own.

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Old 28th February 2012, 12:51 AM
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Old 28th February 2012, 12:59 AM
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Hi Abee, welcome to the forum, hope you enjoy the community.

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Has anyone read anything interesting about why people are so eager to believe in God what is the drive behind it all?
There's plenty of discussion about that here. For example, this has been cited in other threads, but this paper suggests an evolutionary basis for it:
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However, we also explain by appealing to agents - beings who act on the basis of their beliefs and desires in a more or less rational way. Why did the apple fall from the tree? Because Ted wanted to eat it, believed that shaking the tree would make it fall, and so shook the tree. Why are Mary's car keys on the mantelpiece? Because she wanted to remind herself not to forget them, so put them where she thought she would spot them.
Barrett suggests we have evolved to be overly sensitive to agency. We evolved in an environment containing many agents - family members, friends, rivals, predators, prey, and so on. Spotting and understanding other agents helps us survive and reproduce. So we evolved to be sensitive to them - oversensitive in fact. Hear a rustle in the bushes behind you and you instinctively spin round, looking for an agent. Most times, there's no one there - just the wind in the leaves. But, in the environment in which we evolved, on those few occasions when there was an agent present, detecting it might well save your life. Far better to avoid several imaginary predators than be eaten by a real one. Thus evolution will select for an inheritable tendency to not just detect - but over detect - agency.
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Old 28th February 2012, 02:26 AM
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Welcome,

I'm sure the Family Matters subthread will be of great value to you. My currently favoured view of why people are religious at all is due to cultural and social reasons that pin people down, after a brief period of doing what evolution has led our species towards i.e. following what the parent does allows for the greatest chance of survival. This instinct is useful, but as human we now live far beyond what we would have 10000 to 100000 years ago, and our automated survival system is not trained beyond 20-25 years (which is around the time the brain becomes fully functional - i qould quote the source if i could find it)

Hope you find these forums as valuable a resource as I do.
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Old 28th February 2012, 09:55 AM
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Hi Abee, Welcome.
It's great to have yet another person actively seeking to understand the root cause of the problem, which is crucial to formulating an effective solution.

Here is a link to a preview of J. Anderson Thomsons "Why we believe in God(s): a concise guide to the science of faith".
http://www.amazon.com/Why-We-Believe...der_B0053VLW3U
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Old 28th February 2012, 12:22 PM
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Howdy Abee,

Welcome to the forums.

I'm heartened to hear your response to your own problematic upbringing is to focus on avoiding indoctrination for your children. A small point to offer which I hope you consider (frankly you probably have already) is that it would perhaps not good to avoid ALL association but allow some direct experience similar to a benign viral immunisation. That said I'm certain there are threads here and many post full of helpful knowledgeable advice.

I offer you sentiments of success on your personal endeavor and in the search for knowledge and fulfillment.

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Old 28th February 2012, 12:47 PM
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Heloo hymenoptera, wot's the buzz?

Hmm, the belief in godz thing?

Micheal Shermer's "How we Beleive: Science, skepticism and the search for god" (Freeman, New York, 2000) is good.

Even better is Pascal Boyer's: "Religion explained: the evolutionary origins of religious thought" (2001, Basic Books)
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Old 28th February 2012, 01:10 PM
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Heloo hymenoptera, wot's the buzz?
Haha, I've learnt something, thank you!
At first I thought it had something to do with looking into vaginas
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Hello Abee, welcome to the forums.
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Haha, I've learnt something, thank you!
At first I thought it had something to do with looking into vaginas
Get to know your Greek & Latin roots!
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