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wearestardust
6th October 2009, 02:18 PM
Something that some theists seem to have difficulty with is basic honesty. Given that religious texts seem usually to say favourable things about honesty, and that in the Christian sacred texts Satan is frequently characterised as “the deceiver”, this is surprising. But it is, nonetheless, the case.

Here are a few tips for the theist about how to be honest.

Truth and honesty are not the same thing. Most people don’t think a lot about this because most people have relatively straightforward ideas about being deceived (and their dislike of the same). However, often people who are of moderate intelligence, who recognise the distinction between truthfulness and honesty, and who have some mission, make good use of the distinction. Politicians are great users of this distinction. So, as it happens, are religious folk. Indeed, dishonesty (among other shenanigans – which is a nice codeword for “abuse”) by religious leaders is a not uncommon reason for people on this forum starting on the road from faith to atheism.

Truth is (for normal people, not philosophers) generally construed as a property of statements – a statement is true if it accurately reflects the way the world is.

Honesty is a property of people which is a stricter requirement than mere truthfulness, that is the property of people who tend to tell the truth. People are honest if they present information to other people in a way that leaves them with a clear and accurate understanding of how the world is, as the presenter understands it. Indeed it is possible to be honest while unwittingly failing to tell the truth because of error in one’s beliefs.

It is quite possible to be dishonest while being truthful. Let’s consider an example that may shed light on the issue.

A recent episode of Q and A on the ABC featured, among other people, Fr Frank Brennan, a Catholic Priest SJ (ie he’s a Jesuit). The topic was secular society. He and the other ‘religious’ representative, Waleed Aly, were asked about their religion’s views on homosexuality. After some prevaricating mainly on Brennan’s part including trying to split hairs between the disposition to and practice of homosexuality (about which the Catholic church has, formally, different teachings), the question was put to them directly: does or does not your religion condemn the practice of homosexuality?

Brennan’s answer was: this is a matter for the individuals concerned, and for them to work out with their individual religious advisers.

Hey, whoa there! The Catholic Church is opposed to homosexuality. Did Brennan tell a lie? No he didn’t. Here’s why. It is true that the Catholic Church teaches the “primacy of conscience” – that individual decisions are the final arbiter of what is right or wrong.

However, what Brennan didn’t say was that the Catholic church teaches that while decisions for the individual are up to the individual (“subjective” right or wrong), all other things being equal, homosexuality is wrong (“objective” right or wrong).

So Brennan told the truth but at the same time avoided giving the viewer and accurate understanding of the church’s view. He tried to avoid giving an accurate view of the church’s position first by only trying only to talk about teaching on the disposition to homosexuality (ie the disposition is not a sin), and then by telling only half the story about the church’s teaching on practice.

Indeed, the understanding that the uninformed viewer would reach is quite the opposite of what Brennan’s church would teach. So here's the question for reflection: do you think that is honest? The Pope has recently spoken out to say that homosexuality is a greater threat to humanity than destruction of the environment. Contemptible and grotesque as I find that statement to be, at least is straightforward and complete.

As an aside, to complete this scenario, the Catholic church’s teaching on primacy of conscience goes like this:

1. It is up to the individual conscience to decide what is right or wrong for the individual.
2. The conscience is only a reliable guide to right and wrong if it is informed.
3. If the conscience is informed then it will agree with the church.

It’s no coincidence that “Jesuitical” has come to mean argumentation designed to get the answer desired, not the truthful and honest answer.

Aly’s response, on the other hand, was that Islam has no central teaching authority. Therefore it is not possible to say what Islam teaches. Hopefully, armed with the Brennan example and some understanding of how religions operate, it should be possible to see without much further discussion how this may be truthful, while smelling of not being straighforward. Certainly, while all religions have differing views on details, it can reasonably be said that there are consensus views on certain issues. For christianity there is a consensus view that homosexuality is wrong; the question put Aly was whether or not this is true of Islam. We don’t know; he ducked the question.

Indeed Aly’s answer leads us to another approach to non-clarity. I say his answer “may” be truthful. Actually, I'm not so sure it squares with the facts. Can a belief be Islam without, for example, certain views on Allah and his Prophet? I don’t think so. But to obsfucate and avoid the question, Aly made this statement about absolute diversity of muslim views that was not only misleading, but actually untrue it seems to me.

Similarly in the program and in his book “People Like Us”, Aly asserts that a key difference between Islam and Christianity is that Islam has no hierarchies. If you watched the program you will have noticed that Aly made a qualification to this statement, sotto voce and almost into his armpit, that this is at least true for the Sunni faith. A similar quiet excision of the Shi’a from Islam for the sake of convenience of argument is performed in his book. This is another kind of trick which is very common in religion generally and on the part of theists posting on this forum in particular: to make points using especially created definitions or assertions that either don’t stack up against normal usage, or don’t stack up at all against the general situation they are trying to describe.

Anyway, my point is not to pick up and debate specific instances of dishonesty in recent public discourse. It’s to put out a challenge to theists: when you post, think about what you are posting, and whether you are using special meanings or definitions, or leaving out key facts, to make your points. In short: picking and choosing facts is dishonest. That’s it.

Sir Patrick Crocodile
6th October 2009, 03:06 PM
They seem to have a problem with obvious logic - forget the honesty part.

Unsacred Cow
6th October 2009, 03:12 PM
Agreed WASD.

The comments you've made regarding last weeks qanda are spot on IMO. Infact, I have it recorded here and I think if I watched it again I could add a little to the comments regarding Frank (but not so frank). I vaguely remember some mention of it depending on what their homosexuality involved.

It was certainly dishonesty that was the clincher in me walking away from faith.

The really hard lesson for me as someone who was raised in xtianity was that as part of that I was raised to be honest and it is very much a part of who I am. I took it seriously and I'm glad to have done so because I think it's a valuable attribute. But there became a downside to that. Most of my peers in the church (and some outside of it too) didn't seem to play by those same rules of honesty, they didn't take the honesty clause seriously. So where did that leave me. Continually giving honesty in exchange for dishonesty. Certainly didn't have me on a level playing field. I have learnt to exchange honesty for honesty these days.

Hence, when I come up against posters here who demonstrate ingenuine and thinly disguised attempts to "just walk across the room" (a book title theists will be familiar with) and say hi I'm going to be skeptical. I also don't take too kindly to them bringing their dishonesty to this place that I consider a kind of sanctuary from that kind of abusive behaviour to which I long suffered.

Actually, I was thinking about the newcomer approach of a recent example here this morning while running and how it's different to other atheist posters that come here. Most atheist posters come here and attempt to get to know forum members, to converse a little and gradually build up relationships. It seems theist posters come here with no real intention to build up a relationship with anyone. I must say I was struck by a post here recently by such a theist poster that said "I don't even remember you". That may have actually been an honest response but it said a lot to me. It said to me, I didn't even bother to get to know or become familiar with those who were taking the time to post responses to me.

I also thought how liberating it is to be amongst a group of people that have no hidden agenda in their relationships here. By that I mean now that I'm out of the church I can really see how faux relationships were in that environment. Those people tend to be nice because that's what they're supposed to do because their faith says they must, not that they always are nice but I'm sure those of you who have been there done that will know what I'm talking about. It's ingenuine niceness. Whereas here I feel there's little pretence. A refreshing experience for me not too long out of the xtian scene.

TŠöer
6th October 2009, 04:06 PM
I agree with you too WASD,

It seems that religious people, will convert you even if it means surpressing information. And their arguments, are usually dodgy. This is my big problem with them calling themselves 'Honest'

Bruce Long
7th October 2009, 12:04 PM
Honesty, truth and logic be damned - just believe brother!

Mentally Saturated
11th October 2009, 12:04 AM
Interesting thoughts.

Reading the thread reminded me of the well-known concept many theists have that we might call their "flexible morals". Just as they may use whatever facts they can find to support some particular argument (whilst forgetting those that don't), I think it's probably even more common for them to turn a blind eye to issues of morality whenever it suits them (eg petty theft).

One apparently can have their cake and eat it too.. ;)

Gary

SchizoDeluxe
11th October 2009, 12:14 AM
Everyone lies, it's human nature. To disregard that and have some god make only a certain group of people the most honest people on the planet takes away the human nature that is our flaws. Without this we would not get as far as we have come so far.

Mentally Saturated
11th October 2009, 12:21 AM
One has only to see how many xtian youngsters are swapping/sharing mp3 files and movies on the P2P and torrent sites, to realise how flexible are the morals.

Now there's an idea.. maybe we could turn that into a bumper sticker..

"Every time U download an illegal MP3 file, your god kills a kitten.. and you're going to hell." :p

Gary

Unsacred Cow
12th October 2009, 05:10 PM
Or the ads at the beginning of your DVD movie....

..you wouldn't steal a JAAL banner.....piracy is a crime!

atheist_angel
14th October 2009, 03:56 AM
Similarly in the program and in his book “People Like Us”, Aly asserts that a key difference between Islam and Christianity is that Islam has no hierarchies. If you watched the program you will have noticed that Aly made a qualification to this statement, sotto voce and almost into his armpit, that this is at least true for the Sunni faith. A similar quiet excision of the Shi’a from Islam for the sake of convenience of argument is performed in his book. This is another kind of trick which is very common in religion generally and on the part of theists posting on this forum in particular: to make points using especially created definitions or assertions that either don’t stack up against normal usage, or don’t stack up at all against the general situation they are trying to describe.

I have also seen this work from another angle. I have had many problems with people in my personal life 'prompting me' to tell them what they 'want to' hear. This stopped working on me sometime ago. Now it just ends up in an argument. I keep telling people not to ask me questions, if they really don't 'want' to know the 'real' answer. This applies to anything from 'false justifications' to fishing for 'unmerited compliments'. I have also observed that the people that tend to do it the most, also tend to be emotionally insecure, christian republicans. The 'thick-EGOed' boisterous ones, don't seem to care what I think.

wearestardust
14th October 2009, 04:38 PM
I keep telling people not to ask me questions, if they really don't 'want' to know the 'real' answer.

Preach it. If one has clear opinions about bunk one is often faced with the choice of offending, or asking "do you really want to follow through with this" first. Not just religion, but superstitions generally and alternative medicines as well. I had some friends who were into alternative medicines - we we left off was that, well, I looked at things from a "scientific paradigm", and they would look at things from another perspective. I ground my teeth, thought "well, what other paradigm than the scientific one is there?" but I kept my own counsel at that point.

Sir Patrick Crocodile
14th October 2009, 04:51 PM
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spook
22nd October 2009, 06:02 PM
Everyone lies, it's human nature. To disregard that and have some god make only a certain group of people the most honest people on the planet takes away the human nature that is our flaws. Without this we would not get as far as we have come so far.

I don't believe it's human nature to lie, it all has to do with how we are indoctrinated and programmed in life. For our first recognition of life around us we are lied to, so it is natural as we grow and earn we would emulate what we see around us as how to act and approach life.

God clones are natural liars because they believe in a pack of lies, so naturally all they can do is create more lies to support their lack of veracity in what they say. They have no idea of how to be truthful or ethical and you can't expect such primitive unevolved minds to be able to grasp the reality of life and the universe. That's why they always reject new findings and understandings, and make up fairy tales in an attempt to divert the inevitable. Reality frightens them as it undermines the only form of security they feeble minds have, clinging to nothing in the hope it will become something.